Friday, December 7, 2007

Welcome

This blog is intended as a forum for parents going through Child Custody disputes in Passaic, New Jersey. It is a place to share experiences. Nothing is to be construed as legal advice.

Passaic, New Jersey is unique in that Dr. Paul Dasher, who has been there "forever", is responsible for advising all the Family Court Judges who hear custody disputes. Many of the Judge's in the Passaic Vicinage regard Dr. Dasher's opinion to be more valuable than the existing body of case law on child custody, the child's input and their own legal opinion.

Dasher is a outside contractor for the County and his work is really not subject to performance appraisals or supervision. In addition to his role as the Passaic court-appointed child psychologist, Dr. Dasher receives referrals from Judges to act as a private child psychologist in custody disputes and takes in high retainers of thousands of dollars for his services. His private office is in Ridgewood, N.J. It is not known if anyone oversees whether he is taking bribes from either parent in the privacy of that office.

It is rumored that this man is a homosexual. In theory, homosexuality should not interfere with his ability to make custody decisions, but in reality, some parents may have strong feelings on this issue.

I welcome you to share your experiences in Passaic Family Court. Please let us know if your children's best interests are being protected. Let us know if "Kid's Count" in Passaic or if you feel that your children have been harmed by unfair practices, especially evaluations by Dr. Dasher. In some cases he administers the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory, a test that has been the subject of controversy amongst many experts.

I hope we can support each other with compassion and find a way to work towards any changes that may improve the lives of children.

I look forward to your input.

Sincerely,
LAM
(Live Away Mom)

37 comments:

JILL JONES-SODERMAN said...

FEDERAL LAW SUIT - 1983 CIVIL RIGHTS ACTION FILED - APRIL 17TH AGAINST DASHER AND OTHERS OF THE PASAIC COUNTY COURT - WILL DEFINITELY GET NOTICED -THE FEDERAL SUIT SHOULD BE SERVED BY MARSHALLS THIS MONTH OF JULY,08

LOOK UP ISLAM ELKARYONEY WHO COMMITTED SUICIDE AS A RESULT OF DASHER'S BRIBE TAKING THROUGH DUAL ROLES/LOOK AT FCVFC.ORG AND INTHEBESTINTERESTSOFCHILDREN.COM

LOOK UP - THEFAMILYRESOLUTIONCENTER.COM AND FOLLOW THE LINKS - PARTICULARLY TO LAW IS NOT JUSTICE.COM - LOOK AT IN MEMORIAM - "LITTLE GIRL LOST"
ANOTHER DASHER VICTIM

Jennifer Sozio said...

Is that lawsuit really getting filed this month? Where can I get more information? My name is Jennifer Sozio and I am a distraught mother caught up in the middle of a similiar evaluation where no history of abuse or even parenting assessment was conducted but it was determined that I had the "potential" to hurt my child.

I have been fighting in Passaic County since February 16, 2006 with so far three Judges who have been playing case ping-pong with my pleas.

If this is true, would you please contact me as soon as possible?

Thank you.

njcoolchik@hotmail.com

SeitekiThang said...

I can honestly say that the Passaic County Court System- Family division needs a complete overhaul of employees. The dishonest court appointed personnel is horrible what is worse is the fact that the majority of people responsible for making care decisions for our children are aloof and disconnected from their positions. They have no sense of duty or honor for the importance their positions hold. I watched a judge award visitation to a child molestor with supervision by his mother who lied 5 different times during her testimony. This child gets emotionally more disturbed every day she spend with him and is being left alone in his care. If there is a lawsuit pending their negligence I will be the first one to testify as to how me and my child have been treated by the Passaic County Court System- Family Division.

Anonymous said...

This is very sad to see children used as commodities like this.

Yes, worldwide real child abusers are being allowed custody and contact, especially predators of a sexual nature.
The research they are using is old and not scientific, but rather dangerously states children "enjoy" such sexual abuse, and it is in fact good for them.
If this is what judges etc are brainwashed to believe, then a serious de-programming in overdue.

blazinkateyes said...

GLAD I FOUND THIS SITE...I FEEL THE COURT SYSTEM IS BLIND. MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN FIGHTING FOR MORE TIME WITH HIS DAUGHTER AND OUR FAMILY HAD TO BE EVALUATED BY DR.DASHER..DURING THE PROCESS HE MET MY STEP DAUGHTER AND ALTHOUGH SHE CRIED AND PLEADED HE SIDED WITH THE MOTHER ANYWAY ITS BEEN 2 YEARS FIGHTING.WE JUST LEFT COURT TODAY AND THE WORSE PART THE JUDGE DIDNT CARE WHAT MY HUSBAND HAD TOO SAY ALL HE SAID YOU SHOULD BE SATISFIED YOU SEE HER ONE DAY ..... AND MY HUSBAND HAS JOINT CUSTODY....I AM SO FED UP WITH THE FAMILY COURT SYSTEM ITS BIAS TO THOSE FATHERS WHO REALLY CARE FOR THEIR CHILDREN...YES I AM A MOTHER BUT WHATS RIGHT IS RIGHT...NOW WE HAVE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER EVALUATION BEFORE DR DASHER...(NOW ALL GLOVES ARE OFF)


Debbie

NOTINVAIN.ORG said...

I AM JILL JONES-SODERMAN - FORENSIC CONSULTANT - LCSW/MPH - I WELCOME ANY AND ALL WHO HAVE QUESTIONS AND CONCERNS ABOUT THE JUVENILE JUSTICE SYSTEM AND FAMILY COURTS TO REVIEW MY WEB SITES OR CALL ME DIRECTLY - MY PHONE # IS - 845 - 353 - 6111 - OFFICE
WEB SITES - NEWEST -NOTINVAIN.ORG
READ THE STATEMENTS - ANONYMOUSLY POSTED OF PARENTS WHO HAVE LOST CHILDREN - WHO HAVE NOT FOUGHT BACK ABOUT SUCH SADISTIC BULLIES AS PAUL DASHER PHD OF THE PASAIC COUNTY FAMILY COURT, PASAIC NJ - DASHER DOES NO SPEAKING, WRITING, TEACHING - HIS PRIOR TRAINING HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHILDREN AND FAMILIES - HIS PHD THESIS WAS ONHEALTH DELIVERY SYSTEMS THROUGH INS. CO'S - NUMEROUS FAMILIES HAVE SUFFERED TERRIBLY BY DAHSER'S AND OTHERS PERSONAL GREED/BIAS TRANSFERRING CHILDREN FROM THE PROTECTIVE PARENT INTO THE HANDS OF THE ABUSERS - UNDER COLOR OF LAW THEIR WORDS - THE STORIES OF PARENTS IN THEIR WORDS - THROUGH THEIR E MAILS WILL IMPART THE FEAR THESE PEOPLE FEEL AT STANDING UP TO THE COURTS - LAWYERS FEAR THE COURTS FOR FEAR OF MONETARY SANCTIONS -LOSS OF LICENSES - ONE MUST LIVE WITH FEAR AND WORK WITHIN THE LEGAL FRAMEWORK - NOT WITHIN FAMILY COURT - BUT OTHER VEHICLES - EACH CASE MUST BE REVIEWED INDIVIDUALLY AND IN GREAT DEPTH -NOTINVAIN.ORG IS THE NEWEST SITE BEING WRITTEN BY JILL JONES-SODERMAN - NEW WRITING FOR PUBLICATION IS ON THE "MENGELA SYNDROME" SADISM IN FAMILY COURTS -
PLEASURE IN VIWING AND CAUSING PAIN PAIN OF VULNERABLE SUBJECTS OF THE COURTS

ANOTHER PERPETRATOR OF ABUSE AND FACILITATOR OF DASHER HARM IS JUDGE DIAMOND - A JUDGE WHO SAYS HE WILL CLOSE DOWN HIS COURT RATHER THAN FOLLOW THE WISHES OF A CHILD -A JUDGE WHO HAS NEITHER EMPATHY OR INTEREST IN CHILDREN OR FAMILIES AND WHO FACILITATES ABUSE OF POWER AND DISCRETION BY IMPOSING A VEIL OF SECRECY IN VIEWING PSYCHIATRIC EVALUATIONS - - THE QUALITY OF EVALUATIONS ARE NO MORE THAN HEARSAY - COMPLAINTS AGAINST THE PSYCHOLOGIST ARE SHUT DOWN BECAUSE THE COMPLAINTS CANNOT BE RELEASED TO THE BOARD OF PSYCHOLOGY - THIS DUE PROCESS ISSUE NEEEDS TO BE FILED IN FEDERAL COURT AND BROUGHT TO THE SUPREME COURT IF NECESSARY - THE FOUNDATION FOR THE CHILD VICTIMS OF THE FEDERAL COURTS 501C3 WILL BE PURSUING THIS ISSUE -

THE FOUNDATION - MY WEB SITES, MY WRITING WILL NOT BE SILENCED BY THREATS, FRAUDULET CHARGES, DEFAMATION - FEDERAL SUIT FILED AND IN PROCESS - DISCOVERY AND DEPOSITIONS ARE COMING - DEPOSITIONS WILL BE VIDEO TAPED -

FRAUD AND ABUSE OF POWER IN THE COURTS WILL BE CHALLENGED -

I DO WORK AS A FORENSIC CONSULTANT - AND MY CLIENTS DO VERY WELL IN COURT - ASK FOR REFERENCES - AND KNOW THAT HELP IS AVAILABLE - NEW WEB SITE - "EXPERTS BY EXPERIENCE" WILL BE UP SHORTLYNAMED FOR MY PUBLISHED ARTICLE - "NOT VICTIMS -EXPERTS BY EXPERIENCE "- YOU CAN GO FORWARD WITH FEAR - WITH AN UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT AND WHY YOU ARE TAKING THE STEPS YOU NEED TO TAKE - OR LIVE WITH DEFEAT AND DO NOTHING - YOUR CHILDREN HAVE NO VOICE/NO RIGHTS/YEARS OF SUFFERING

I AM JILL G. JONES-SODERMAN LCSW/MPH AND I WILL NEVER TOLERATE SILENTLY THE ABUSES OF THE COURTS AND THE AFFILIATION OF MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS AND LAWYERS WHO FALL INTO LINE IN SAVAGING CHILDREN AND PROTECTIVE PARENTS -
845 - 353 - 6111 - E MAIL - JILL@THEOPENMIND.US

WEB SITES

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Anonymous said...

you are all bitter women your all the same

Anonymous said...

you are all just bitter and trying to get payback because a DOCTOR found you to be unfit. stop trying to destroy his reputation.

Anonymous said...

I have seen he same scenario in many countries over 15 years.

It is always the same- abusers win and children are used in a human experiment,to see what way they turn out at 18.

Children used as research guinea pigs so adults can keep jobs going for themselves.

Child slavery is alive and well in USA.

JILL JONES-SODERMAN said...

ON AUG. 25, 2009 JUDGE MICHAEL DIAMOND SIGNED AN ORDER SENDING THE BROTHERS OF ISLAM ELKARYONEY TO EGYPT WITH THEIR FATHER - SALAH ELKARYONEY. THEIR FATHER BEAT AND ABUSED HIS SON'S MOTHER IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN AS WELL AS BEATING AND ABUSING THE THREE SONS HE FATHERED WIT HIS WIFE, DANIELLE LOUGH. THEIR OLDEST SON, ISLAM ELKARYONEY, AT AGE 12 COMMITTED SUICIDE BY STRANGLING HIMSELF TO DEATH, RATHER THAN SUBMITTING TO SPENDING ANY TIME WITH HIS FATHER.

JILLJONES-SODERMAN said...

THE ENTIRE ORDER DETAILING THE TISSUE OF LIES PUT FORTH BY MICHAEL DIAMOND AND PAUL DASHER , COURT EUALUATOR IN THE PASAIC COUNTY COURT
ARE PUBLISHED IN THE FEDERAL LAW SUIT FILED BY JILL JONES-SODERMAN, FORENSIC EXPERT, ADVOCATE FOR FAMILIES AND CHILDREN TRANSFERRED FROM THE HANDS OF THE PROTECTIVE PARENT INTO THE HANDS OF THEIR ABUSER. MEDICAL RECORDS, POLICE RECORDS, PSYCHIATRIC RECORDS WERE COMPLETELY SUPPRESSED BY THE mCVEIGH, ROTHSTADT, DIAMOND COURTS WHO HAVE TRIED TO BURY THE TRUTH WHICH LED TO THE SUICIDE DEATH OF 12 YOU ISLAM ELKARYONEY - OCT. 25, 2005 IN THE EMERGENCY ROOM OF ST JOSEPH'S HOSPITAL -THE CHILD, ATTENDED BY DR. PRUDEN ATED HIS FATHER. THE REPORT WRITTEN BY DIAMOND IS A FRAUDULENT DOCUMENT. MANY OTHER FAMILIES AND CHILDREN HAVE LOST THEIR LIVES, FIGURATIVELY AND LITTERALLY DUE TO COURT FRAUD AND CORRUPTION. FEAR OF STATE RETALIATION SILENCES MANY.
ISLAM'S MOTHER HAS FOUGHT FOR HER CHILDREN SINCE 2001. DANIELLE LOUGH'S MAJOR MISTAKE HAS BEEN HER ATTEMPT TO WORK WITH THE COURT AND ITS MINIONS, AMONG THEM HER ATTORNEY, RICHARD S. MAZAWEY, CLIFTON, NJ WHO WORKS WITH STATE ACTORS AGAINST THE BEST INTEREST OF HIS CLIENTS. REFER TO WEB SITES - LAWISNOTJUSTICE.COM AND INTHEBESTINTERESTSOFCHILDREN.COM
COOPERATIVELY, IN GOOD FAITH.

JILL JONES-SODERMAN said...

THE BROTHERS OF ISLAM ELKARYONEY WERE BEING POCESSEDTO GO TO EGYPT WITH APPROVAL OF THE DASHER.DIAMOD COURT IN PASSAIC COUNTY. THE BOYS TRIED TO RUN FROM THEIR FATHER'S HOME BUT POLICE AND DYFS RETURNED THEM TO TH HOME WHERE THEY WERE ABUSED SINCE LITTLE CHILDREN.

AN ARTICLE PUBLISHED ABOUT THE PLIGHT OF THE CHILDREN BEING SENT TO EGYPT WITH THE BLESSINGS OF THE CORRUPT PASSAIC COUNTY COURT WAS PUBLISHED WORLD WIDE ON THE WEB. SUDDENLY A STAY OF THE ORDER TO DEPART FOR EGYPT IN 14 DAYS WAS GRANTED. THE BOYS IN A STATE OF FEAR WERE HOSPITALIZED - AND FINALLY HELP WAS OBAINED AS THEY FINALLY WERE BELIEVED. THEY ARE TEENS NOW - THEIR CHILDHOOD A SHAMBLES AND A TRAVESTY - BUT NOW SALAH ELKARYONEY - TORTURER/ABUSER OF CHILDREN AND WOMEN - SUPPORTED IN HIS ABUSE BY FALSE MENTAL HEALTH EVALUATIONS AND FAKE CREDIBILITY SUPPLIED BY PAUL DASHER WHO SUPPRESSED EVIDENCE AND SUPPORTED AN ABUSER FLED FOR EGYPT - SOLD HIS TAXI MEDALLION AND CLOSED HIS NJ APARTMENT - IN FEAR OF FINALLY BEING PROSECUTED AS HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN YEARS BEFORE.GARY DIAMOND, THE PRESIDING JUDGE IN SUPERIOR JUDGE IN PASSAIC COUNTY BEHAVES IS ANOTHER CORRUPT, LAWLESS ANTAGONIST AND THREAT TO THE PUBLIC WELFARE. HE IS KNOWN TO THE PULIC AND RECENTLY WRITTEN UP IN THE PRESSAS BEING SUSPECTED OF SUFFERING FROM DEMENTIA.

THE BROTHERS OF ISLAM ELKARYONEY ARE LIVING IN FOSTER CARE - FREE OF THEIR FATHER BUT NOT UNITED WITH THEIR MOTHER. THEIR BABY BROTHER IS IN FOSTER CARE - SEPARATED FROM HIS MOTHER BY A TERMINATION OF PARENTAL RIGHTS, BEING APPEALED BY ATTNY, RICARD MAZAWEY WHO GOES THROUGH THE MOTIONS OF FILING APPEALS - BUT HIS LEGAL ACTIONS ARE MUCH SOUND AND FUR MEANING NOTHING. tHE "BIG bOYS" WERE FREED BY THE PRESS AND BY THEIR OWN ENDURING COURAGE. MAZAWEY PROFITTED BY THEIR SUFFERING - BY FILING USELESS COURT ACTIONS BEFORE A CORRUPT COURT.

FRAUDFORENSICS.ORG DISCUSSSES THE ELKARYONEY CASE AS AN EXAMPLE OF COURT CORRUPTION, CLIENT FEAR OF THE COURTS AND CORRUPT LAWYERS WHO
KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON AND CONTINUE THE "GOOSE STEP" OF HEIL JUDGE!

Anonymous said...

I left the court house of Passaic County today in tears. I cried out to an officer in the courtroom as I was being totally harassed by my daughters father by an ongoing case since 2002. He continues to take me back to court for the same reasons, downward modification and parenting time. I've seen several different judges, always with the hope that this time perhaps I will be heard and it will be about my daughters safety and rights. I spelled out the substance abuse issue @ hand, spelled it out for the court ordered psychologist, in which his recommendations were random drug testing and that was not honored? Again today, I spelled it out all over again, this time to a court mediator who said that the issues @ hand were too sensitive for a mediator to address and that the judge had to make a decision. That decision never came.

Anonymous said...

I have my fourth court date this month. I cant afford an attorney, so I have legal aid. Dr. Dasher's report and findings are false. My statements as well as others on my behalf were twisted, and some weren't even mentioned. Dr. Dasher in my opinion favors the men, and the womem are basically bad mothers. I also had to go through a psych evaluation, take a survey of 596 questions. The only ones that suffer are the children. Passaic County Family gsCourt needs an Enema. I'm also going to submit a letter to Gov. Christie. I am just one of many who fall prey to Dr. Dashers claims and findings.

Anonymous said...

Hello, Could you please give me more information. I have had similiar issues with the Passaic County court System. I was just in court on July 23 in front of Judge De la Carrea and it was just a circus. He has ordered me to see Dr. Dasher again for a 3 evaluation. I was ordered to attend a COPE program or some similiar program. I attended a similiar program closer to my home and this did not satisfy the court. I know the Passaic County court is corrupt when it comes to family law. I really need some help and guidance. What ever came out of the lawsuit ?

Anonymous said...

Any updates?

Laura said...

The Passaic County family court system is totally corrupt and an absolute joke. Some judges play the game well and try to give the appearance of being fair. Judge De La Carrera is the worst, most corrupt, biased towards men judge I have ever encountered.He makes unsound, irrational decisions based on hearsay with no supporting evidence. He does not look out for the best interest of the children and his position as a judge should be scrutinzed carefully by a higher court. If anyone feels the same way, please post a way for me to contact you and maybe something can finally be done to change this ridiculous intollerable situation. Our kids are being mentally and physically abused, by the fathers(or other parent) and this judge continues to throw them back into the abuse.Who protects are children?

Anonymous said...

IN THE PASSAIC COUNTY SUPERIOR COURT KIDS DON'T COUNT. A MONTH BEFORE I TOOK MY CHILDREN TO THE KIDS COUNT PROGRAM MY 2 DAUGHTERS--TO MY SURPRISE, EACH WROTE A LETTER TO JUDGE DIAMOND. THEY EACH DESPERATELY REQUESTED SUPERVISED VISITATION WITH THEIR DAD , THEY SAID THEY WERE SCARED AND THE THINGS HE SAYS ABOUT THEIR MOM UPSET THEM. THEY EVEN TOLD THE JUDGE AT THE END OF THE LETTER THAT THEY STILL DO LOVE THEIR FATHER.I NEVER TOLD ANY OF OUR CHILDREN TO WRITE ANY LETTERS TRIED TO GET THEIR CRIES FOR HELP HEARD. WHEN I ASKED JUDGE DIAMOND IF HE WOULD READ THEIR LETTERS PRIVATELY IN HIS CHAMBERS HE SAID," OH NO,I REALLY DON'T WANT THE KIDS TO BE INVOLVED. BUT YET THEY HAVE THE BALLS TO TELL THE KIDS TO DRAW PICTURES OF DIVORCE OR WRITE A LETTER TO THEIR PARENTS! MY SON WENT RUNNING UP TO THE JUDGE AFTER THE PROGRAM AND LITERALLY TOLD HIM ABOUT THE ABUSE. SO JUDGE DIAMOND GOT ROTHSTADT TO PUT IN ONE OF HIS 3/4 BOGUS ORDERS THAT " NO CHILD SHALL BE FORCED TO ATTEND VISITATION. THEN HE TOLD SUCH A STUPID LIE TO THE LAWYERS ABOUT WHY HE HAD TO DROP OFF THE CASE IT WAS ACTUALLY FUNNY, AND VERY TRANSPARENT! JUDGE DIAMOND WROTE A TO MY HUSBAND'S LAWYER ABOUT THAT HE WAS VERY DISTURBED ABOUT WHAT OUR SON TOLD HIM AND THAT IF THIS WAS TRUE IT BETTER STOP OR SERIOUS SANCTIONS WOULD BE GIVEN TO MY HUSBAND. HE ALSO SAID HE WOULD CHECK UP ON THE CHILD WITHIN A SHORT TIME BUT GUESS WHAT!!!! HE NEVER DID B ECUASE TO HIM KIDS DON'T COUNT BUT THE MAIN REASON IS POSSIBLY BECUASE HE AND THE OTHER JUDGES AND SEVERAL LAWYERS WERE JUST TOO BUSY TAKING BRIBES. DR. DASHER WASN'R THE ONLY IDIOT WHO WAS SO ETIMES APPOINTED BY THE COURT THERE WAS A DR GALLINA WHO JUST AS BAD. THIS WAS ONLY FEW OF THE UNETHICAL/ ILLEGAL ACTORS IN ONLY THE FIRST OF MANY MANY UNFAIR UNETHICAL AND POSSIBLY ILLEGAL FACETS OF THIS "PLAN" OF DIVORCE BUT ALSO TAKING OUR CHILDREN FROM ME AND GIVING CUSTODY TO THEIR PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE FATHER. WELL I WILL SAY ONE THING I AM NEVER GOING TO WASTE ANY OF MY PRECIOUS TIME OR WHAT LITLE MONEY I HAVE TO DO ANY STUPID PROTESTS..THAT'S FOR PEOPLE TO MOAN ABOUT DEFEAT. WILL NOT BE DEFEATED AND WHEN I DO WIN I'LL HAVE A CELEBRATION WITH MY CHILDREN ABOUT GOD'S LOVE AND JUSTICE, NOT STUPID PROTEST SO THAT CERTAIN ACTORS CAN GET ATTENTION FROM THE PRESS. I PRAY DAILY FOR ALL MOTHERS TO GET THEIR KIDS BACK...AND THEY WILL. ANNONYMOUS

Anonymous said...

Judge De La Carrera is the biggest asshole in Passaic County. He is not biased towards men becuase based on two randon evaluations from social workers, which supposedly were based on what my children said, but was really verbatim the words of my ex-wife, took my overnight and mid week parenting time away and ordered me to have a psychiatric evaluation. i'm the only sane one and I have to go for an evaluation. I wasn't even given a chance to defend the allegations. Thank god he is leaving in September and Judge Diamon is gone, but the other judges are no better.

Anonymous said...

By way of introduction, I am a licensed clinical social worker in the State of New York and a practicing psychotherapist/forensic consultant. In addition to my private practice, I am the Founder and Executive Director of The Foundation for the Child Victims of the Family Courts. I am well aware of the abuses by family courts in the Passaic area and many other areas as well. I am well aware also of Paul Dasher's abuse of his position. I will try to help you navigate the system. Call me at 845-469-5588.

Jill Jones Soderman
www.theopenoffice.us

Anonymous said...

I have had the displeasure of dealing with Judge Diamond,as well as Judge De la Carrera and Dr. Paul Dasher. These three men DO NOT have the "best interest" of our children. This is an outrage!I was treated like a criminal! Anyone that wants to talk about their experiences, please reach out to me with an email, and I will respond. We need to band together and make a change for our children and our families. Dad's are more than just a child support payment! It is good to compare notes with individuals that have had experience in dealing with these three so please reach out.

Anonymous said...

I just have another bad experience at Passaic Family Court today, it's anyway that we can get all together and bring this issues to Mr and Mrs Obama they maybe could do something on behalf of our children
for their BEST INTEREST

Anonymous said...

I just have another bad experience at Passaic Family Court today, it's anyway that we can get all together and bring this issues to Mr and Mrs Obama they maybe could do something on behalf of our children
for their BEST INTEREST

Jill Jones-Soderman said...

CNN ARTICLE ON PAUL DASHER PHD.. part 1

Prior to the extensive writing about Paul Dasher, PHD and other court appointed evaluators Paul Dasher hid in the shadows, keeping a low profile, protected by equally corrupt, biased judges who are protected by judicial immunity and allowed to rule in family courts, essentially through judicial discretion. Rule of actual law is limited to precedent- where it exists and where it has been published - as many cases are not published and therefore not considered as forming a basis for opinion.

Judicial discretion allows judges not trained in mental health, child development,
medical, diagnostic issues to in fact practice in areas in which they are ot licensed and if they made the types of decisions and rulings made from the bench - in the public sector, they would be charged with practicing without a license and therefore being a danger to the public welfare.

Evaluators who wish to discredit , demean, isolate, remove a protective parent will often move forward with an unjustified, unfounded toxic diagnosis which points to severe pathology on the part of that parent that then defines them as a danger to the child. The court can then isolate that child from the parent via supervised visitation or visitation and all contact denied.

Evaluators who opine and define a parent with a toxic diagnosis often fail to have diagnostic testing - like the MMPI, a test used as a cursory diagnostic tool, scored by Pearson, the owner of the MMPI and the only authentic authorized scoring agent.

Evaluators have also been known to write reports about clients never seen, reported those evaluations to the court and sealed the reports so that neither clients nor attorneys were able to be aware of such reports. In some cases where clients had attorneys who were part of the triumvirate of court corruption - where the decision was pre - ordained as to who was to receive custody of the child, the lawyer never pressed for revelation of the report and allowed fifth amendment rights of clients to have accusations against an individual revealed, were in fact knowingly denied. Continued in part 2

Jill Jones-Soderman said...

ARTICLE ON PAUL DASHER ON CNN... part 2

The Foundation for the Child Victims of the Family Courts, 501C3 - A non Profit organization has records of clients who have lost children as a result of false evaluations. Further, the Foundation has the documentation of clients who have dealt with evaluators and the triumvirate of judge, guardian ad litem, evaluators who have submitted reports but never seen the client in question. In these cases toxic diagnoses have been used to remove children from the protective parent into the hands of the abuser.

Tactics of using falsified documentation or suppression of evidence, while being used in a small portion of cases (10 % of 100,000 clients is 10,000 families) tend to be used by the most egregious abusers, orchestrated by a back room/ex parte deals with judges and lawyers.

Paul Dasher is among other court appointed evaluators or experts who can be paid off with power connections and money. Huge fees for evaluations ($5,000. $10,000. ) are charged to clients who have no funds and must compete for the biased or forthrightly fraudulent evaluations performed. Documentation of such cases of abuse are in the hands of the accuser. Clients who have worked with Forensic Advocates through the foundation have received custody of their children and legal action and complaints have been launched against perpetrators, though those perpetrators are well protected. Parents who think that they can advocate for themselves are quite incorrect as their complaints and protests appear self serving.

Dasher is just one of many professionals who have been accused of corruption and influence peddling. It is of great concern that CNN, a highly credible news source would promote any positive spin on Dasher when so much adverse documentation and proof of fraud and corruption exists against him. Though evidence and criticism is frequently suppressed - much clear and compelling material exists throughout the internet. The Passaic County Child Custody Blog is filled with consistent statements of fraud, bias and abuse at the hands of Dasher and the Passaic County Family Court.

Dd Hahn said...

I AGREE. I suggest families ask for the other NEW evaluators. They have proven competent and kind with my family.
One is Dr Salvanto in Wayne and I think the other is in Passaic and a man. His name is Dr Yalkows?
Just ask the judge for someone besides Dasher!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ask the Manager of
The court for anyone BUT Dr. Dasher. They have new untainted evaluators. My friend got a female that was fair and wonderful. He felt she really listened.

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Anonymous said...

dasher was assigned to my case after my verbally mentally emotionally and physically abusive ex husband decided after 4 years of no visitation with our boys he suddenly wants to be involved. the boys want nothing to do with him. at first dasher made a set of verbal recommendations that would have required my ex to get the help he really needs. then 2 weeks later and without any discussion with me dasher changes his recommendations and now is bullying me that if I don't follow his new recommendations he threatens me with a letter to the judge of what he considers to be noncompliance. he even met my kids who cried hysterically to him trying to explain how they are fearful of their "father" and want nothing to do with him because of his actions in the past and all of the time that has past. I am so overwhelmed and confused by all of this!!!

Anonymous said...

Dasher is one of the Passaic County "untouchables".

No matter how many complaints, or irrational his evaluations are based upon; no Judge will go against what he determines. There are no reconsiderations either. Basically Dasher is the "law". Once the decision is made, good luck getting any rights to your child again.

If you anger Dasher or question his authority, then your case becomes impossible no matter how much you pay your attorney to fight. It is a losing battle.

That whole county is connected somehow. Prominent attorneys, Dasher, & Judges, there is no logic or adherence to law there. Everyone rakes in the dollars, Dasher and his substantial court ordered paid fees. Attorneys for prolonging cases and turning what is supposed to be in the best interest of the child into the best interest of their pockets, and the Judges who never question anything but just continue the status quo year after year citing, "no significant change of circumstance" as their defense to do nothing or even remotely be fair.

If you appear pro-se; Judges slap you with opposing counsel fees even when you cannot afford your own attorney.

Passaic County Court isn't a real court, but rather the court of personal opinion and opinions, I truly believe, are for sale. The more connected your attorney is, the better the outcome will be, as long as you keep paying your retainers.

Dashers' evaluations are not based on facts or past history of the families or child, but they are rather his unfounded speculations.

Good luck trying to get justice there. Hope you have plenty of money.

Anonymous said...

Judges are getting away with crimes at the Passaic County Court House and every court house around the nation, that’s is because Judges know that they rule themselves, and because Judges know that even if a litigant took his complaint to the highest office in the nation and that is the White House and sat directly and face to face with the President of the United States, that the presidents answer will be to that litigant would be “Sorry I understand and I sympathies with you, but I can’t help you I just have no Jurisdictions over Judges”, and unfortunately that is a sad fact. That is why Judges are getting away with these CRIMES against Children and society. Simply they are criminals with a license to KILL.

Anonymous said...

I met Dasher I would not even call him a Doctor, for calling him a Doctor would be a decrease and will only demolish the integrity of that title, Dasher exhibits more and greater confutation that the families and children that are before him and who are going through family turmoil and crises and here is why.
a. I saw him issuing multiple contradicting reports, and that is because after issuing his first report the litigant who he issued the report against will change behavior and that easily throws Dasher into a state of confusion and most likely have him change his second report.

b. A side from his office in Woodridge New Jersey Dasher has another office right at the Passaic County Court House he knows all Judges at Court House and has strong ties with them he can easily communicate with any Judge at any given time and his calls are always welcomed by the judges. This communication will also throw Dasher in state of confusion as well and have him rethink his thoughts about one of the parties he is evaluating.

c. At times Judges may instruct Dasher of how they like the outcome of the case before them to be, and of course Dasher will have to comply , I would; do even think that Dasher is going to set there and argue with a Judge, he knows if he does not cooperate with the Judges he would have a Job there. That’s why he’s been at the Passaic County forever.

d. And if no one happened to intervene in Dasher’s opinion then it becomes, a bias and guessing game and good luck to litigants.

Remember what Dasher Issues in his report is only an OPINION; therefore he cannot be held liable for his fuckup, that’s why it becomes the diction of the immuned Judge to throw the bomb, and once that bomb has been thrown if it hits the right target that would be great,but I can assure that most of the time it does not , and if it did not there is no coming back resulting in a great damage that every litigant will hope that he can fixed and rebuilt through appeals, but litigant will find out that as they are trying to reconstruct the damage that they are being hit with tremendous amount of bombs at the same time to prevent them from any kind of fix and to only create more damage.

Dasher if you are reading this, while I know you may not say it out loud, but deep down inside of you, I don’t think, but do strongly believe that you agree with me.

Anonymous said...

I met Dasher I would not even call him a Doctor, for calling him a Doctor would be a decrease and will only demolish the integrity of that title, Dasher exhibits more and greater confutation that the families and children that are before him and who are going through family turmoil and crises and here is why.

a. I saw him issuing multiple contradicting reports, and that is because after issuing his first report the litigant who he issued the report against will change behavior and that easily throws Dasher into a state of confusion and most likely have him change his second report.

b. A side from his office in Ridgewood New Jersey Dasher has another office right at the Passaic County Court House he knows all Judges at Court House and has strong ties with them he can easily communicate with any Judge at any given time and his calls are always welcomed by the judges. This communication will also throw Dasher in state of confusion as well and have him rethink his thoughts about one of the parties he is evaluating.

c. At times Judges may instruct Dasher of how they like the outcome of the case before them to be, and of course Dasher will have to comply, I would; do even think that Dasher is going to set there and argue with a Judge, he knows if he does not cooperate with the Judges he would not have a Job there. That’s why he’s been at the Passaic County forever. I personally can tell Dasher has no problem of lying on his reports.

d. And if no one happened to intervene in Dasher’s opinion then it becomes, a bias and guessing game and good luck to litigants.

Remember what Dasher Issues in his report is only an OPINION; therefore he cannot be held liable for his fuckups, that’s why it becomes the decision of the immuned Judge to throw the bomb, and once that bomb has been thrown if it hits the right target that would be great,but I can assure that most of the time it does not , and if it did not there is no coming back resulting in a great damage that every litigant will hope that he can fixed and rebuilt through appeals, but litigant will find out that as they are trying to reconstruct the damage that they are being hit with tremendous amount of bombs at the same time to prevent them from any kind of fix and to only create more damage.

Dasher if you are reading this, while I know you may not say it out loud, but deep down inside of you, I don’t think, but do strongly believe that you agree with me.

Anonymous said...

I met Dasher I would not even call him a Doctor, for calling him a Doctor would be a decrease and will only demolish the integrity of that title, Dasher exhibits more and greater confutation than the families and children that are before him and who are going through family turmoil and crises and here is why.

a. I saw him issuing multiple contradicting reports, and that is because after issuing his first report the litigant who he issued the report against will change behavior and that easily throws Dasher into a state of confusion and most likely have him change his second report.

b. A side from his office in Ridgewood New Jersey Dasher has another office right at the Passaic County Court House he knows all Judges at Court House and has strong ties with them he can easily communicate with any Judge at any given time and his calls are always welcomed by the judges. This communication will also throw Dasher in state of confusion as well and have him rethink his thoughts about one of the parties he is evaluating.

c. At times Judges may instruct Dasher of how they like the outcome of the case before them to be, and of course Dasher will have to comply, I would; do even think that Dasher is going to set there and argue with a Judge, he knows if he does not cooperate with the Judges he would not have a Job there. That’s why he’s been at the Passaic County forever. I personally can tell Dasher has no problem of lying on his reports.

d. And if no one happened to intervene in Dasher’s opinion then it becomes, a bias and guessing game and good luck to litigants.

Remember what Dasher Issues in his report is only an OPINION; therefore he cannot be held liable for his fuckups, that’s why it becomes the decision of the immuned Judge to throw the bomb, and once that bomb has been thrown if it hits the right target that would be great,but I can assure that most of the time it does not , and if it did not there is no coming back resulting in a great damage that every litigant will hope that he can fixed and rebuilt through appeals, but litigant will find out that as they are trying to reconstruct the damage that they are being hit with tremendous amount of bombs at the same time to prevent them from any kind of fix and to only create more damage.

Dasher if you are reading this, while I know you may not say it out loud, but deep down inside of you, I don’t think, but do strongly believe that you agree with me.

Anonymous said...

I met Dasher I would not even call him a Doctor, for calling him a Doctor would be a decrease and will only demolish the integrity of that title, Dasher exhibits more and greater confutation than the families and children that are before him and who are going through family turmoil and crises and here is why.

a. I saw him issuing multiple contradicting reports, and that is because after issuing his first report the litigant who he issued the report against will change behavior and that easily throws Dasher into a state of confusion and most likely have him change his second report.

b. A side from his office in Ridgewood New Jersey Dasher has another office right at the Passaic County Court House he knows all Judges at Court House and has strong ties with them he can easily communicate with any Judge at any given time and his calls are always welcomed by the judges. This communication will also throw Dasher in state of confusion as well and have him rethink his thoughts about one of the parties he is evaluating.

c. At times Judges may instruct Dasher of how they like the outcome of the case before them to be, and of course Dasher will have to comply, I would; do you even think that Dasher is going to set there and argue with a Judge, he knows if he does not cooperate with the Judges he would not have a Job there. That’s why he’s been at the Passaic County forever. I personally can tell Dasher has no problem of lying on his reports.

d. And if no one happened to intervene in Dasher’s opinion then it becomes, a bias and guessing game and good luck to litigants.

Remember what Dasher Issues in his report is only an OPINION; therefore he cannot be held liable for his fuckups, that’s why it becomes the decision of the immuned Judge to throw the bomb, and once that bomb has been thrown if it hits the right target that would be great,but I can assure that most of the time it does not , and if it did not there is no coming back resulting in a great damage that every litigant will hope that he can fixed and rebuilt through appeals, but litigant will find out that as they are trying to reconstruct the damage that they are being hit with tremendous amount of bombs at the same time to prevent them from any kind of fix and to only create more damage.

Dasher if you are reading this, while I know you may not say it out loud, but deep down inside of you, I don’t think, but do strongly believe that you agree with me.

Anonymous said...

I met Dasher I would not even call him a Doctor, for calling him a Doctor would be a decrease and will only demolish the integrity of that title, Dasher exhibits more and greater confutation than the families and children that are before him and who are going through family turmoil and crises and here is why.

a. I saw him issuing multiple contradicting reports, and that is because after issuing his first report the litigant who he issued the report against will change behavior and that easily throws Dasher into a state of confusion and most likely have him change his second report.

b. A side from his office in Ridgewood New Jersey Dasher has another office right at the Passaic County Court House he knows all Judges at Court House and has strong ties with them he can easily communicate with any Judge at any given time and his calls are always welcomed by the judges. This communication will also throw Dasher in state of confusion as well and have him rethink his thoughts about one of the parties he is evaluating.

c. Biased Judges may instruct Dasher of how they like the outcome of the case before them to be, and of course Dasher will have to comply, I would; do you even think that Dasher is going to set there and argue with a Judge, he knows if he does not cooperate with the Judges he would not have a Job there. That’s why he’s been at the Passaic County forever. I personally can tell Dasher has no problem of lying on his reports.

d. And if no one happened to intervene in Dasher’s opinion then it becomes, a bias and guessing game and good luck to litigants.

Remember what Dasher Issues in his report is only an OPINION; therefore he cannot be held liable for his fuckups, that’s why it becomes the decision of the immuned Judge to throw the bomb, and once that bomb has been thrown if it hits the right target that would be great, but I can assure that most of the time it does not , and if it did not there is no coming back resulting in a great damage that every litigant will hope that he can fixed and rebuilt through appeals, but litigant will find out that as they are trying to reconstruct the damage that they are being hit with tremendous amount of bombs at the same time to prevent them from any kind of fix and to only create more damage.

Dasher if you are reading this, while I know you may not say it out loud, that deep down inside of you, I don’t think, but do strongly believe that you agree with me.

Anonymous said...

To whom ever wrote the last post about Dasher and that Dasher will be agreeing with his statements. If I was Dasher I will take a permanent note from your post to remind me at all times, SPECIALLY as I am evaluating people; that while I am evaluating people that at the same time I am being evaluated from those same people. Great and well presented informative post. Thank you